A Man's Guide to Buying Lingerie for his Lady
Most men lack knowledge about selecting lingerie, which is understandable given its complexity. How is a man supposed to know what type of lingerie to buy, what size, and what color? Here is a little guide to help you when choosing lingerie for that special someone.
There are a few things to consider before you go out. What does she like? Remember that you will not be wearing this; she will, and you should go out with the intent of getting something she will like. If she doesn't like lacey, tiny, see-through teddies, it's likely that she won't be in the mood to wear them, and you might never see them. So keep what she likes in mind.
If you're unsure, examine her nightgown or lingerie drawer before you depart. Check for material type (cotton, silk, etc.), colors, and most importantly, size. If she wears a large and you get her a small, she might find it flattering, but if she wears a small and you buy her a large, you might run into trouble. Avoid anything that says "control" on the label. Those items are used to firm and flatten tummies and rears, and she would probably not appreciate receiving them as a gift.
Another thing to keep in mind is to accept the store's offer to wrap the lingerie. Dainty lingerie will look better in their wrapping than if you wrap it in the paper left over from your cousin's birthday. The presentation of the lingerie is an integral part of its package. Also, if you are uncomfortable in the store, check out online stores that sell lingerie. You can always start at Victoria's Secret, but most major department stores like Macy's and Nordstrom's also sell lingerie. Final note: remember to keep your receipt just in case it is the wrong style, size, or color.
Now, what type of lingerie is available? You can choose from a wide range of options! Ask yourself what the occasion is. Is this an occasion to express your love for her? If so, something crotchless or see-through probably will not send that message. However, if the occasion is Valentine's Day or your anniversary, you might appreciate a slightly risqué item. Bras alone have many different styles, including push-up, plunge, gel-filled, padded, underwire, seamless, backless, strapless, open cup, and unpadded.
If you are purchasing a bra and panty set, always check out what she has in her drawer beforehand and definitely make note of the size of both the bra and panty. Most stores offer a minimum of one bra-matching pair of pants, while others offer multiple options for you to choose from. Knowing what type of pants she prefers to wear, such as thongs, briefs, or high-cut bikinis, will also be helpful.
Sleepwear can be equally confusing. One type of sleepwear is babydoll pajamas. Typically, babydoll pajamas feature extremely thin straps, a plunging V neckline, and a very short silhouette, paired with matching pants. You will find most of these made out of silk or satin, materials that always make a woman feel good about herself. However, if a woman perceives her breasts to be excessively large or small, or believes her stomach to be excessively large, she may want to steer clear of babydoll pajamas.
There are slips and chemises. Similar to the babydoll pajamas, these are a little longer and a little better at concealing problem areas such as the breasts, buttocks, or stomach. They too are usually made of silk or satin.
Gowns are full-length versions of the baby doll. Many are see-through or lacey and can help put your woman in the mood. Babydolls, slips, costumes, and gowns may also come with a robe.
A silky pajama set, with buttons up the front, can make your woman feel incredibly sexy, particularly if she is a plus size (size 18 or above). Boxer sets have become very popular lately. The tops of the boxer sets are typically tight, featuring thin straps and a V neckline, although some sets also feature regular t-shirt tops.
If you are really looking for lingerie to spice up your love life, take a look at Frederick's of Hollywood (available online). They have been selling sexy lingerie for over 50 years. They have a wide variety of garter belts, bustiers, corsets, teddies (similar to the babydoll, but one piece), crotchless pants, and fishnet stockings—items that may not be available at many stores that sell lingerie.
Your partner's self-esteem greatly influences the type of lingerie you should choose for her. Many big women love sexy little teddies, but some will shy away from them for fear of exposing too much of themselves. Most stores sell lingerie in plus sizes, which are a little less revealing. If she is particularly athletic, she might prefer a boxer set. Thin women will look attractive in anything, but especially teddies, corsets, and babydolls.
When shopping for clothing, try to keep in mind what she likes. If you purchase something similar to the lingerie she already has and in colors you know she likes, it will probably make her happy. But keep the receipt just in case!
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